Monday, March 4, 2013

7 Essential Ingredients for a Healthy Relationship


It is hard to find a soul mate! Not many people find a special person who loves them from the bottom of their heart. On the other hand, people who find such a special person are not able to hang on-to each other for a long time due to their negligence. Maintaining a relationship is the most difficult task. Here are 7 essential ingredients to keep a steady, happy and healthy relationship:
Respect – For you to respect your loved one is the best way to express love. There isn’t anything more valuable in this world than respect. When you give respect, you actually gain respect. You don’t have to make an effort to respect your partner. If you love your partner truly, you will automatically respect your loved one. Don’t just respect your partner in the heart; show it with your actions and words. Respect, also in terms of space and your loved one’s ideas and opinions.
Trust – Start trusting your partner from the very beginning of your relationship. When a person trusts another person, there is a sense of reliability between the two of them. Trust helps in building a relation to a great extent. It is really special to know that someone trusts you no matter what. Share this feeling between you and your partner to let the love flow freely. “Trust” is the foundation of every relationship.
Give Time – Keep things steady when you’ve won the heart of your loved one. Often, people tend to get over excited and seem to rush through things which end in disaster. Give your relationship suitable time till you both reach a comfort level which is agreeable to the both of you. Don’t start expecting certain things from your loved one from the very beginning. It can make things complicated.
Maintain a Balance – Don’t try to steal your loved one’s freedom and personal life. Keep a balance in independence and dependence on each other. When people maintain a slight gap and maintain a balance, relationships grow very smoothly.
Compromise – is the most essential ingredient to maintain a happy relation. Someone has to sacrifice for the other. You shouldn’t be afraid to make compromises for the person who you love the most.
Appreciation – It’s important to appreciate each other’s efforts. It will make your loved one realize that you actually value the efforts being made by them. Males must appreciate the beauty of their partner. Women always love to be complimented on their looks and appearance.  Make it a point to compliment.  It is an important ingredient to a happy, healthy relationship.
Be Straight Forward – Don’t ever hide anything from your partner no matter what it is. Once you lose the trust of your partner, you won’t be able to fix the damage. Be honest to your partner as it will enhance the “trust” factor in your relationship. Lying may seem an easy way out of the situation but do you really need to lie to your loved one? One lie leads to several other lies. Your partner will understand you if you tell them the truth.

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