How To Be A Cool Boyfriend/Girlfriend

We all know those people who just seem like they would be a really great boyfriend or girlfriend to have. They have a ton of fun and don’t get hung up on nagging or being jealous. Here are 10 tips on how to be a cool boyfriend/girlfriend yourself:

1.    Have a life. Being independent and having your own life, your own goals, friends, etc is one of the coolest things you can do in a relationship. You’ll always be interesting to be around and your partner will feel lucky to have you.

2.    Get along with their friends and families. Your partner will think it’s really cool if all of their buddies and their families like you and want to have you around. No one wants to date that person that no one wants to be around.

3.    Be creative. Don’t just suggest the same old dinner and a movie or say, “whatever you want” when asked what you want to do on a date. Take the initiative and think of creative date ideas and your partner will be super impressed and counting down until your next date.

4.    Be thoughtful. Treat your boyfriend/girlfriend to thoughtful little surprises and treats and they’ll think you’re amazing. Not only will they love the gestures but they’ll feel super special and always be looking forward to what’s next.

5.    Be their biggest fan. You are guaranteed to be the coolest boyfriend/girlfriend out there if you are always cheering your partner on in life. Everyone loves to be around someone that inspires them and builds them up.

6.    Have their back. If your partner knows that they can always count on you to defend them, stick up for them, and be there for them, they won’t be able to help but think you’re the greatest. The security of knowing that you’re always there for them will make them feel great.

7.    Be low maintenance. Low maintenance people are fun and easy to be around. They’re relaxed and are able to just go with the flow without a lot of drama. If you’re low maintenance your partner will love how easygoing you are.

8.    Be spontaneous. Your partner will think you’re super fun if you’re up for anything and can have fun anytime or anywhere. If you just need each other to have a good time you’re lucky to be together.

9.    Have ambition. You’ll be inspiring if you share your goals and your ambitions with your partner. They’ll be psyched to think about their own goals and share them with you too. It’s a downer being with someone who just wants to hang out and do nothing.

10. Don’t be perfect. The coolest people to be with aren’t afraid to look dorky and don’t have to be perfect all the time. They can let their guard down and just have fun. If you and your partner can do that together then you’ll be the coolest people in each other’s eyes.